Articles - Practical 实用性文章 Archives - Gratia Dei Sola Media http://gdsmedia.org/category/articles/articles-practical/ Thu, 02 Jun 2016 03:38:08 +0000 en-US hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.2.6 教会会员须知 – Z https://gdsmedia.org/articles/articles-practical/abcs-church-membership-z2/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=abcs-church-membership-z2 Thu, 02 Jun 2016 03:37:35 +0000 http://gdsmedia.org/?p=2243 热情。作为一个教会的会员,另一个特权就是接受弟兄姊妹对我们的劝勉,免得我们因着罪的欺骗性而变得心地刚硬(来3:12)。但是,为了使教会得享这种祝福,我们都当各尽其职。因此,让我们彼此激励,焕发圣洁的热情和爱心;无论何时,只要需要,就当以爱心彼此劝勉。   ———————- Copyright © 2013 Gratia Dei Sola Media (华恩传媒) 版权所有 未经华恩传媒书面允许,不可印制出版。若要转载至其他网站,务必遵循以下条例: 1)不得擅自修改任何内容 2)注明原作者 3)注明转载自华恩传媒网站并注明华恩传媒网址 4)注明华恩传媒版权所有。

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ABC’S of Church Membership – Z https://gdsmedia.org/articles/articles-practical/abcs-church-membership-z/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=abcs-church-membership-z Thu, 02 Jun 2016 03:31:42 +0000 http://gdsmedia.org/?p=2239 Zeal. Another privilege of being a member of the church is having the brethren to exhort us lest we be hardened through the deceitfulness of sin (Heb 3:12). But in order for the church to […]

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教会会员须知 – Y https://gdsmedia.org/articles/articles-practical/abcs-of-church-membership-y2/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=abcs-of-church-membership-y2 Tue, 16 Feb 2016 02:49:48 +0000 http://gdsmedia.org/?p=2226 降服。教会内部的冲突是不可避免的。如果所争议的事项并非涉及到不不可侵犯的真理,我们就当首先降服在基督之下,也当彼此降服,从而把冲突转化为有益的学习经验。在某些特定的事项上我们不能屈服。但是,在一些灰色地带,或是涉及的是意见性而不是确信性的事情上,我们就当随时甘心乐意地让步。   ———————- Copyright © 2013 Gratia Dei Sola Media (华恩传媒) 版权所有 未经华恩传媒书面允许,不可印制出版。若要转载至其他网站,务必遵循以下条例: 1)不得擅自修改任何内容 2)注明原作者 3)注明转载自华恩传媒网站并注明华恩传媒网址 4)注明华恩传媒版权所有。

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ABC’S of Church Membership – Y https://gdsmedia.org/articles/articles-practical/abcs-of-church-membership-y/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=abcs-of-church-membership-y Tue, 16 Feb 2016 02:48:03 +0000 http://gdsmedia.org/?p=2223 Yield. While conflict within a church is inevitable, we can turn conflicts into profitable learning experience by yielding to Christ and yielding to one another whenever the matters in dispute do not involve inviolable truths. […]

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ABC’S of Church Membership – X https://gdsmedia.org/articles/articles-practical/abcs-of-church-membership-x/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=abcs-of-church-membership-x Fri, 15 Jan 2016 04:09:04 +0000 http://gdsmedia.org/?p=2217 Xerox. It is important to know that although we are joined together into one body, we are not Xeroxed copies of one another. God made us differently and he gives us different gifts. We must […]

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教会会员须知 – W https://gdsmedia.org/articles/articles-practical/abcs-of-church-membership-w2/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=abcs-of-church-membership-w2 Sat, 31 Oct 2015 03:11:38 +0000 http://gdsmedia.org/?p=2206 见证。 教会是上帝指定的传福音的工具。上帝指定的传福音的方式就是讲道。不是教会的每一个成员都蒙召讲道。然而,教会的所有会员都蒙召为基督作见证,并且都是教会传福音工作的一部分。我们的生活当为基督发光,以平常聊天的形式“谈福音”,邀请和劝导我们认识的人来听讲道,这也是我们传福音的重要方面。   ———————- Copyright © 2013 Gratia Dei Sola Media (华恩传媒) 版权所有 未经华恩传媒书面允许,不可印制出版。若要转载至其他网站,务必遵循以下条例: 1)不得擅自修改任何内容 2)注明原作者 3)注明转载自华恩传媒网站并注明华恩传媒网址 4)注明华恩传媒版权所有。

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ABC’S of Church Membership – W https://gdsmedia.org/articles/articles-practical/abcs-of-church-membership-w/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=abcs-of-church-membership-w Sat, 31 Oct 2015 03:04:33 +0000 http://gdsmedia.org/?p=2203 Witness. The Church is God’s appointed instrument for evangelism. The appointed means of evangelism is the preaching of the Gospel. Not every member of the church is called to preach. However all members of the […]

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教会会员须知 – V https://gdsmedia.org/articles/articles-practical/abcs-of-church-membership-v2/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=abcs-of-church-membership-v2 Wed, 30 Sep 2015 02:36:38 +0000 http://gdsmedia.org/?p=2190 发泄。当我们作为会员加入一个特定的地方教会时,我们就成为那个家庭的成员。因此,我们应该牢记,千万不要把对教会的不满发泄到教会之外去。家庭中的争吵应该在家庭内部以一种荣耀上帝的方式解决(参考:太18:15-20;林前6:1-11)。   ———————- Copyright © 2013 Gratia Dei Sola Media (华恩传媒) 版权所有 未经华恩传媒书面允许,不可印制出版。若要转载至其他网站,务必遵循以下条例: 1)不得擅自修改任何内容 2)注明原作者 3)注明转载自华恩传媒网站并注明华恩传媒网址 4)注明华恩传媒版权所有。

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ABC’S of Church Membership – V https://gdsmedia.org/articles/articles-practical/abcs-of-church-membership-v/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=abcs-of-church-membership-v Wed, 30 Sep 2015 02:32:25 +0000 http://gdsmedia.org/?p=2187 Vent. When we join as members of a particular congregation, we become a member of a family. As such we should remember never vent our frustration about the church outside the church. Family squabbles should […]

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教会会员须知 – U https://gdsmedia.org/articles/articles-practical/abcs-of-church-membership-u2/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=abcs-of-church-membership-u2 Mon, 31 Aug 2015 03:27:18 +0000 http://gdsmedia.org/?p=2178 合一。我们的主曾为信徒中间的合一祷告(约17:21)。因此,教会的合一是每个信徒都当渴慕的教会特色。要寻求这种教会的合一,我们必须从我们会员资格所属的教会内开始。我们不仅应当寻求信心的合一,也要寻求爱心的合一。要做到信心上的合一,我们可以本于自己的良心,顺服包含在教会附属性教义标准或信仰告白中所综述的上帝的真理之下(所有会员都当相信这些教义标准或信仰告白是与上帝不可能错谬的圣言相一致的)。另一方面,爱心的合一,必须由审慎和顺服才能培养出来。审慎是指我们不当做任何破坏教会合一的事,例如对事工表达破坏性的意见等。顺服是指我们当爱弟兄姊妹,即使我们一开始的时候并没有感觉到有很深的感情,也当继续相爱。爱是个动词。我们彼此相爱不仅应当体现在言语上,也当体现在行为上(约一3:18)。我们藉着互相服事来彼此相爱。无论何时,如果我们认为教会中某个成员得罪了我们,就当积极寻求和解,我们彼此相爱就必须这样行。 ——————– Copyright © 2012 JJ Lim Posted by GDS with permission. No printing/publishing of material allow without prior permission from Author. Article may be reproduced in electronic form for posting on Web sites 1) […]

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ABC’S of Church Membership – U https://gdsmedia.org/articles/articles-practical/abcs-of-church-membership-u/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=abcs-of-church-membership-u Mon, 31 Aug 2015 03:20:10 +0000 http://gdsmedia.org/?p=2175 Unity. Our Lord prayed for unity amongst believers (Jn 17:21). Church unity is therefore a quality to be desired by every believer. We must begin by seeking to maintain unity within the church of our […]

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教会会员须知 – T https://gdsmedia.org/articles/articles-practical/abcs-of-church-membership-t2/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=abcs-of-church-membership-t2 Fri, 31 Jul 2015 03:53:17 +0000 http://gdsmedia.org/?p=2168 感谢。 我们感谢主,祂把我们带进祂的身体的一个分支,使我们能够服事祂。这样的感恩之心给人带来满足感,使我们能够享受教会的团契和服事,而不会发怨言或起争论(腓2:14;犹16)。发怨言,起争论,这在今日很多人中间都是很常见的诱惑。   ———————- Copyright © 2013 Gratia Dei Sola Media (华恩传媒) 版权所有 未经华恩传媒书面允许,不可印制出版。若要转载至其他网站,务必遵循以下条例: 1)不得擅自修改任何内容 2)注明原作者 3)注明转载自华恩传媒网站并注明华恩传媒网址 4)注明华恩传媒版权所有。

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ABC’S of Church Membership – T https://gdsmedia.org/articles/articles-practical/abcs-of-church-membership-t/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=abcs-of-church-membership-t Fri, 31 Jul 2015 03:52:31 +0000 http://gdsmedia.org/?p=2165 Thankfulness. We should be thankful to the Lord for bringing us into a branch of His body where we can serve Him. Such gratitude breeds contentment and enables to enjoy the fellowship and ministry of […]

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教会会员须知 – S https://gdsmedia.org/articles/articles-practical/abcs-of-church-membership-s2/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=abcs-of-church-membership-s2 Tue, 30 Jun 2015 04:15:48 +0000 http://gdsmedia.org/?p=2149 服事。教会内的各项服事都向我们敞开,这是作为一个教会会员的特权之一。因此,会员必须寻求使用他们的恩赐、才智、时间、能力以及物质方面的资源在教会中参与服事。当然,所有信徒在我们生活中的各个方面,履行我们的义务时,也都是在服事主。但是,因为无论是在安息日,还是在其他时候,服事弟兄姊妹都会涌流出特别的喜乐,所以,作为教会的会员,我们应当寻求服事。我们可以去找教会的圣职人员询问,我们能够帮助什么。正如基督弯腰为门徒洗脚一样,服事弟兄姊妹乃是一种喜乐,即使是一些普通的事情,如做饭、洗刷、接待、排放椅子等等,也是如此。作为教会的会员,我们应该问的是:我如何才能服事弟兄姊妹,而不是我能够从其他教会会员那里得到什么好处。让我们“各人不要单顾自己的事,也要顾别人的事”(腓2:4)。   ———————- Copyright © 2013 Gratia Dei Sola Media (华恩传媒) 版权所有 未经华恩传媒书面允许,不可印制出版。若要转载至其他网站,务必遵循以下条例: 1)不得擅自修改任何内容 2)注明原作者 3)注明转载自华恩传媒网站并注明华恩传媒网址 4)注明华恩传媒版权所有。  

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ABC’S of Church Membership – S https://gdsmedia.org/articles/articles-practical/abcs-of-church-membership-s/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=abcs-of-church-membership-s Tue, 30 Jun 2015 04:11:00 +0000 http://gdsmedia.org/?p=2144 Service. One of the privileges of being members of a church is having all areas of service within the body opened to us. Members must therefore seek to make use of their gifts, talents, time, […]

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教会会员须知 – R https://gdsmedia.org/articles/articles-practical/abcs-of-church-membership-r2/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=abcs-of-church-membership-r2 Sat, 30 May 2015 08:29:31 +0000 http://gdsmedia.org/?p=2128 尊重。如果我们想在教会里享受与其他信徒的交往, 那么尊重就是一个非常重要的美德。千万不要只是尊重年长的成员和长执人员。对于其他会员,也当互相尊重,这是我们必须操练的。使徒保罗说:“不可严责老年人,只要劝他如同父亲;劝少年人如同弟兄;劝老年妇女如同母亲,劝少年妇女如同姐妹;总要清清洁洁的”(提前5:1-2)。并且,“凡事不可结党,不可贪图虚浮的荣耀;只要存心谦卑,各人看别人比自己强”(腓2:3)。   ———————- Copyright © 2013 Gratia Dei Sola Media (华恩传媒) 版权所有 未经华恩传媒书面允许,不可印制出版。若要转载至其他网站,务必遵循以下条例: 1)不得擅自修改任何内容 2)注明原作者 3)注明转载自华恩传媒网站并注明华恩传媒网址 4)注明华恩传媒版权所有。

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ABC’S of Church Membership – R https://gdsmedia.org/articles/articles-practical/abcs-of-church-membership-r/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=abcs-of-church-membership-r Sat, 30 May 2015 08:27:14 +0000 http://gdsmedia.org/?p=2125 Respect. Respect is a very important virtue if we want to enjoy our communion with other believers in the church. We must respect not just older members and office bearers. We must exercise mutual respect […]

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教会会员须知 – Q https://gdsmedia.org/articles/articles-practical/abcs-of-church-membership-q2/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=abcs-of-church-membership-q2 Thu, 30 Apr 2015 11:03:55 +0000 http://gdsmedia.org/?p=2118 问题。提出正确的问题,就在学习上完成了一半的功夫。对教会会员来讲,如果在教会教义立场方面有疑问,在去其它地方寻找答案之前,应当首先询问自己的长老。不管是在哪个地方有疑问,当我们的长老有机会以忍耐和爱心来教导我们的时候,我们就当努力做到“快快地听,慢慢地说,慢慢地动怒”(雅1:19)。   ———————- Copyright © 2013 Gratia Dei Sola Media (华恩传媒) 版权所有 未经华恩传媒书面允许,不可印制出版。若要转载至其他网站,务必遵循以下条例: 1)不得擅自修改任何内容 2)注明原作者 3)注明转载自华恩传媒网站并注明华恩传媒网址 4)注明华恩传媒版权所有。

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ABC’S of Church Membership – Q https://gdsmedia.org/articles/articles-practical/abcs-of-church-membership-q/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=abcs-of-church-membership-q Thu, 30 Apr 2015 11:02:42 +0000 http://gdsmedia.org/?p=2115 Questions. Asking the right questions is the half of learning. It is proper for members of the church to make enquiries of their elders before looking elsewhere for answer if they have any queries concerning […]

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教会会员须知 – P https://gdsmedia.org/articles/articles-practical/abcs-of-church-membership-p2/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=abcs-of-church-membership-p2 Tue, 31 Mar 2015 05:42:50 +0000 http://gdsmedia.org/?p=2103 祷告。我们必须彼此代祷,不单要为我们的物质需要祷告,也要为我们的灵命需要祷告。雅各说:“所以你们要彼此认罪,互相代求,使你们可以得医治。义人祈祷所发的力量是大有功效的”(雅5:16)。我们也当为整个教会祷告,尤其是要为教会的和睦祷告(诗122:6),并且当以谦卑顺服之心为上帝所膏立的传道人祷告,“好叫主的道理快快行开,得着荣耀”(帖后3:1)。   ———————- Copyright © 2013 Gratia Dei Sola Media (华恩传媒) 版权所有 未经华恩传媒书面允许,不可印制出版。若要转载至其他网站,务必遵循以下条例: 1)不得擅自修改任何内容 2)注明原作者 3)注明转载自华恩传媒网站并注明华恩传媒网址 4)注明华恩传媒版权所有。

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ABC’S of Church Membership – P https://gdsmedia.org/articles/articles-practical/abcs-of-church-membership-p/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=abcs-of-church-membership-p Tue, 31 Mar 2015 05:40:59 +0000 http://gdsmedia.org/?p=2101 Pray. We must pray for one another not only for our material, but our spiritual needs. James says: “Confess your faults one to another, and pray one for another, that ye may be healed. The […]

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教会会员须知 – O https://gdsmedia.org/articles/articles-practical/abcs-church-membership-o2/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=abcs-church-membership-o2 Sat, 28 Feb 2015 04:28:20 +0000 http://gdsmedia.org/?p=2093 机会。会员要充分使用每个机会,参加教会的团契活动。另外,会员也当善用每个机会来服事别人,同时也接受教会其他会员的服事。“所以有了机会,就当向众人行善,向信徒一家的人更当这样”(加6:10)。还有,就像《使徒行传》20章35节所讲的那样:“施比受更为有福”,我们必须学习让我们的弟兄施与并和我们一起分享我们的负担。   ———————- Copyright © 2013 Gratia Dei Sola Media (华恩传媒) 版权所有 未经华恩传媒书面允许,不可印制出版。若要转载至其他网站,务必遵循以下条例: 1)不得擅自修改任何内容 2)注明原作者 3)注明转载自华恩传媒网站并注明华恩传媒网址 4)注明华恩传媒版权所有。

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ABC’S of Church Membership – O https://gdsmedia.org/articles/articles-practical/abcs-church-membership-o/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=abcs-church-membership-o Sat, 28 Feb 2015 04:26:44 +0000 http://gdsmedia.org/?p=2090 Opportunities. Apart from making use of every opportunity for fellowship, members should make us of every opportunity that present itself to serve and to be served by other members of the church. “As we have […]

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教会会员须知 – N https://gdsmedia.org/articles/articles-practical/abcs-church-membership-n2/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=abcs-church-membership-n2 Sat, 31 Jan 2015 13:11:06 +0000 http://gdsmedia.org/?p=2083 告知。 这是一个很好的作法,当你不能参加教会某一项蒙恩之道时,就提前告诉你的长老,这是普通的基本的礼貌。无论何时,不管你生活中有可喜可贺的事情,还是有需要代祷的地方,都当告诉你的长老,这也是会员当做的。请牢记:“若一个肢体受苦,所有的肢体就一同受苦;若一个肢体得荣耀,所有的肢体就一同快乐”(林前12:26)。   ———————- Copyright © 2013 Gratia Dei Sola Media (华恩传媒) 版权所有 未经华恩传媒书面允许,不可印制出版。若要转载至其他网站,务必遵循以下条例: 1)不得擅自修改任何内容 2)注明原作者 3)注明转载自华恩传媒网站并注明华恩传媒网址 4)注明华恩传媒版权所有。

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ABC’S of Church Membership – N https://gdsmedia.org/articles/articles-practical/abcs-church-membership-n/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=abcs-church-membership-n Sat, 31 Jan 2015 13:09:20 +0000 http://gdsmedia.org/?p=2080 Notify. It is a good practice, which is consistent with common courtesy to inform your elders when you are unable to come for any of the appointed means. It is also desirable to take the […]

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教会会员须知 – M https://gdsmedia.org/articles/articles-practical/abcs-church-membership-m2/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=abcs-church-membership-m2 Wed, 31 Dec 2014 12:16:36 +0000 http://gdsmedia.org/?p=2058 工具。教会会员当渴慕并竭力参与上帝在教会中所设立的各种蒙恩之道。既然教会不属于带领人,而是属于基督,会员必须认识到基督在其护理所指定的这些蒙恩之道都是为了他们在灵命上得益处。另外,在大多数情况下,那些基督之下的牧者们,都有一个建造教会的教导计划。如果会员对参加什么和不参加什么挑挑拣拣,就是轻看他们带领人的善意,也可能使自己在灵命滋养上处于不平衡的状态。   ———————- Copyright © 2013 Gratia Dei Sola Media (华恩传媒) 版权所有 未经华恩传媒书面允许,不可印制出版。若要转载至其他网站,务必遵循以下条例: 1)不得擅自修改任何内容 2)注明原作者 3)注明转载自华恩传媒网站并注明华恩传媒网址 4)注明华恩传媒版权所有。

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ABC’S of Church Membership – M https://gdsmedia.org/articles/articles-practical/abcs-church-membership-m/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=abcs-church-membership-m Wed, 31 Dec 2014 12:15:24 +0000 http://gdsmedia.org/?p=2055 Means. Members of a church must desire and seek to attend all the appointed public means of grace as far as possible. As the church does not belong to the leaders but to Christ, members […]

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教会会员须知 – L https://gdsmedia.org/articles/articles-practical/abcs-church-membership-l2/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=abcs-church-membership-l2 Sat, 29 Nov 2014 08:42:51 +0000 http://gdsmedia.org/?p=2049 忠诚。基督徒的首要忠诚对象必须是基督。然而,对于自己身为会员的教会的忠诚也是非常重要的。这是一项圣经中所提倡的美德(参见:箴17:17)。即使那些非信徒,也都晓得他们应该支持自己所加入的俱乐部或协会。因此,一个地方教会的会员更当与自己所在的教会同甘苦,共患难。除非我们确实忠于我们身为会员的教会,否则就不能把基督的爱显明给教会外面那些认识我们的人(约13:35)。但是,如果我们所在的教会不再忠于基督,我们就当停止对这一教会的忠诚。   ———————- Copyright © 2013 Gratia Dei Sola Media (华恩传媒) 版权所有 未经华恩传媒书面允许,不可印制出版。若要转载至其他网站,务必遵循以下条例: 1)不得擅自修改任何内容 2)注明原作者 3)注明转载自华恩传媒网站并注明华恩传媒网址 4)注明华恩传媒版权所有。

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ABC’S of Church Membership – L https://gdsmedia.org/articles/articles-practical/abcs-church-membership-l/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=abcs-church-membership-l Sat, 29 Nov 2014 08:41:16 +0000 http://gdsmedia.org/?p=2046 Loyalty. The Christian’s primary loyalty must be to Christ. But loyalty to one’s church of membership must not be viewed as unimportant. It is a biblical virtue (see Prov 17:17). If even unbelievers know that […]

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教会会员须知 – K https://gdsmedia.org/articles/articles-practical/abcs-church-membership-k2/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=abcs-church-membership-k2 Fri, 31 Oct 2014 12:44:47 +0000 http://gdsmedia.org/?p=2040 知识。或许与我们某些人所认为的恰恰相反,在改革宗教会或正在归正的教会中,对于会员资格而言,知识的多寡并不是最重要的标准。在基督里可靠的信仰告白以及加入已经存在的信徒群体的真诚愿望,这两者乃是教会中领受圣餐的会员资格的基本标准。但是,作为教会会员,要享受教会生活,知识乃是一个非常重要的因素。具体而言,我们必须努力在以下三大方面增进我们的知识:第一,培养我们对教会元首耶稣基督的认识(参考:约一2:3)。第二,努力追求明白圣经以及教会所采纳的各个信条中所阐明的教义。第三,努力逐渐认识教会中的圣职人员(长老和执事)和各个会员。   ———————- Copyright © 2013 Gratia Dei Sola Media (华恩传媒) 版权所有 未经华恩传媒书面允许,不可印制出版。若要转载至其他网站,务必遵循以下条例: 1)不得擅自修改任何内容 2)注明原作者 3)注明转载自华恩传媒网站并注明华恩传媒网址 4)注明华恩传媒版权所有。

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ABC’S of Church Membership – K https://gdsmedia.org/articles/articles-practical/abcs-church-membership-k/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=abcs-church-membership-k Fri, 31 Oct 2014 12:42:40 +0000 http://gdsmedia.org/?p=2038 Knowledge. Contrary to what some of us may think, knowledge is not the most important criterion for membership in a Reformed or Reforming Church. Credible profession of faith in Christ together with a sincere desire […]

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教会会员须知 – J https://gdsmedia.org/articles/articles-practical/abcs-church-membership-j2/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=abcs-church-membership-j2 Tue, 30 Sep 2014 03:38:21 +0000 http://gdsmedia.org/?p=2032 论断:主耶和华说:“你们不要论断人,就不被论断;你们不要定人的罪,就不被定罪;你们要饶恕人,就必蒙饶恕”(路6:37)。这一诫命指出我们彼此论断或互相怀疑的倾向。作为教会的会员,我们必须努力更好地互相认识,这样我们在看待彼此的行为时,就不会陷入试探,作出不友善的论断。如果我们觉得教会中某个会员有过错,就当首先寻求澄清事实,这是我们始终都当注意的。我们绝不要作出不公正的论断,更不要仓促得出结论。   ———————- Copyright © 2013 Gratia Dei Sola Media (华恩传媒) 版权所有 未经华恩传媒书面允许,不可印制出版。若要转载至其他网站,务必遵循以下条例: 1)不得擅自修改任何内容 2)注明原作者 3)注明转载自华恩传媒网站并注明华恩传媒网址 4)注明华恩传媒版权所有。

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ABC’S of Church Membership – J https://gdsmedia.org/articles/articles-practical/abcs-church-membership-j/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=abcs-church-membership-j Tue, 30 Sep 2014 03:36:50 +0000 http://gdsmedia.org/?p=2029 Judgement. The Lord says: “Judge not, and ye shall not be judged: condemn not, and ye shall not be condemned: forgive, and ye shall be forgiven” (Lk 6:37). This commandment betrays our tendency to judge […]

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教会会员须知 – I https://gdsmedia.org/articles/articles-practical/abcs-church-membership-i2/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=abcs-church-membership-i2 Sat, 30 Aug 2014 05:48:18 +0000 http://gdsmedia.org/?p=2014 教导。教会是“真理的柱石和根基”(提前3:15)。因此,教会会员的一个非常重要的责任就是支持教会的教导事工。这包括甘心乐意地领受牧者的讲道和教导,并且天天查考圣经,晓得他们的教训是否在圣经上有根据(徒17:11)。然后,要牢牢持守那些美好的、合乎圣经的教训(参考:帖前5:21)。   ———————- Copyright © 2013 Gratia Dei Sola Media (华恩传媒) 版权所有 未经华恩传媒书面允许,不可印制出版。若要转载至其他网站,务必遵循以下条例: 1)不得擅自修改任何内容 2)注明原作者 3)注明转载自华恩传媒网站并注明华恩传媒网址 4)注明华恩传媒版权所有。

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ABC’S of Church Membership – I https://gdsmedia.org/articles/articles-practical/abcs-church-membership-i/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=abcs-church-membership-i Sat, 30 Aug 2014 05:46:23 +0000 http://gdsmedia.org/?p=2011 Instruction. The Church is “the pillar and ground of the truth” ( 1 Tim 3:15). A very important duty of church members is therefore to support the instructional programme of the church. This entails receiving […]

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教会会员须知 – H https://gdsmedia.org/articles/articles-practical/abcs-church-membership-h2/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=abcs-church-membership-h2 Thu, 31 Jul 2014 09:11:08 +0000 http://gdsmedia.org/?p=2003 圣洁。作为信徒,我们每个人都当在行事为人的各个方面分别为圣,正如那召我们的上帝是圣洁的一样(彼前1:15)。但是,生活中的圣洁不仅仅是个人的私事,因为在很多方面影响到教会。首先,罪使人的良心麻木不仁,从而激发别人也犯罪。第二,因为亚干的罪,以色列人就受到严厉的管教(书7:1);因为没有严守圣餐,哥林多教会中就有很多人得病、死亡(林前11:30)。教会会员当竭力追求个人的圣洁,不仅仅是为了自己,也是为了教会的缘故。   ———————- Copyright © 2013 Gratia Dei Sola Media (华恩传媒) 版权所有 未经华恩传媒书面允许,不可印制出版。若要转载至其他网站,务必遵循以下条例: 1)不得擅自修改任何内容 2)注明原作者 3)注明转载自华恩传媒网站并注明华恩传媒网址 4)注明华恩传媒版权所有。

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ABC’S of Church Membership – H https://gdsmedia.org/articles/articles-practical/abcs-church-membership-h/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=abcs-church-membership-h Thu, 31 Jul 2014 09:09:12 +0000 http://gdsmedia.org/?p=2001 Holiness. As believers we must individually be holy in all manner of conversation as God who has called us is holy (1 Pet 1:15). But holiness in life is not only a private matter, for […]

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教会会员须知 – G https://gdsmedia.org/articles/articles-practical/abcs-church-membership-g2/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=abcs-church-membership-g2 Tue, 01 Jul 2014 09:55:45 +0000 http://gdsmedia.org/?p=1987 闲话。无论何时,如果有足够多的一群信徒,没有按照他们的本分彼此相爱,闲言碎语就成为一个很大的诱惑和几乎无法补救的邪恶。说闲话破坏关系。教会的会员必须下定决心管好自己的舌头,不要随便说闲话,特别是涉及到另一个会员的过错时,更当如此。   ———————- Copyright © 2013 Gratia Dei Sola Media (华恩传媒) 版权所有 未经华恩传媒书面允许,不可印制出版。若要转载至其他网站,务必遵循以下条例: 1)不得擅自修改任何内容 2)注明原作者 3)注明转载自华恩传媒网站并注明华恩传媒网址 4)注明华恩传媒版权所有。

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ABC’S of Church Membership – G https://gdsmedia.org/articles/articles-practical/abcs-church-membership-g/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=abcs-church-membership-g Tue, 01 Jul 2014 09:54:06 +0000 http://gdsmedia.org/?p=1984 Gossip. Gossip is a strong temptation and almost an irremediable evil whenever there is a large enough group of believers who do not love one another as much as they should. But gossip destroys relationship. […]

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教会会员须知 – F https://gdsmedia.org/articles/articles-practical/abcs-church-membership-f2/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=abcs-church-membership-f2 Sat, 31 May 2014 06:14:01 +0000 http://gdsmedia.org/?p=1979 团契。教会的会员不仅要一起事奉主,还当彼此委身,一同建造我们彼此之间的友谊和团契。尽管我们同属于一个大家庭,但是我们彼此在一起的时间与我们和同事、同学在一起的时间相比,却是以分钟来计算的。因此,我们要充分利用我们相见的每一次机会。“又要彼此相顾,激发爱心,勉励行善。你们不可停止聚会,好像那些停止惯了的人,倒要彼此劝勉,既知道那日子临近,就更当如此”(来10:24-25)。   ———————- Copyright © 2013 Gratia Dei Sola Media (华恩传媒) 版权所有 未经华恩传媒书面允许,不可印制出版。若要转载至其他网站,务必遵循以下条例: 1)不得擅自修改任何内容 2)注明原作者 3)注明转载自华恩传媒网站并注明华恩传媒网址 4)注明华恩传媒版权所有。

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ABC’S of Church Membership – F https://gdsmedia.org/articles/articles-practical/abcs-church-membership-f/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=abcs-church-membership-f Sat, 31 May 2014 06:12:16 +0000 http://gdsmedia.org/?p=1976 Fellowship. Apart from serving the Lord together, members of the church must be committed to growing the friendship and fellowship we enjoy with one another. Though we are a family, the amount of time we […]

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教会会员须知 – E https://gdsmedia.org/articles/articles-practical/abcs-church-membership-e-2/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=abcs-church-membership-e-2 Wed, 30 Apr 2014 18:54:37 +0000 http://gdsmedia.org/?p=1953 长老。能够得到基督指定的长老的监督,这也是作为一个教会会员所享有的一项基本的祝福。作为基督之下的牧人,众长老都当受到尊重(彼前5:4);只要他们所要求的不与圣经相悖,就当以顺服之心予以尊重。“你们要依从那些引导你们的,且要顺服;因他们为你们的灵魂时刻警醒,好像那将来交帐的人;你们要使他们交的时候有快乐,不至忧愁,若忧愁就与他们无益了”(来13:17)。   ———————- Copyright © 2013 Gratia Dei Sola Media (华恩传媒) 版权所有 未经华恩传媒书面允许,不可印制出版。若要转载至其他网站,务必遵循以下条例: 1)不得擅自修改任何内容 2)注明原作者 3)注明转载自华恩传媒网站并注明华恩传媒网址 4)注明华恩传媒版权所有。

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ABC’S of Church Membership – E https://gdsmedia.org/articles/articles-practical/abcs-church-membership-e/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=abcs-church-membership-e Wed, 30 Apr 2014 18:50:29 +0000 http://gdsmedia.org/?p=1950 Eldership. A fundamental blessing of being a member of a church is to have the oversight of Christ-appointed elders. Elders must be respected as under-Shepherd of Christ (1 Pet 5:4) and honoured with obedience so […]

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教会会员须知 – C https://gdsmedia.org/articles/articles-practical/abcs-church-membership-c2/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=abcs-church-membership-c2 Fri, 28 Feb 2014 14:12:04 +0000 http://gdsmedia.org/?p=1914 基督。 加入一个教会并不是与一个牧师结盟,而是加入信徒这一身体,作为基督身体的一部分,一起成长,一起事奉。这种加入乃是嫁接到以基督为根的橄榄树的一个枝子上(罗11:16-17,22;参考:约15:1-7)。因此,相信基督是救主和主,乃是成为任何真教会会员的基本要求;同时,以基督为中心,乃是享受教会会员能得到的各种祝福的关键。   ———————- Copyright © 2013 Gratia Dei Sola Media (华恩传媒) 版权所有 未经华恩传媒书面允许,不可印制出版。若要转载至其他网站,务必遵循以下条例: 1)不得擅自修改任何内容 2)注明原作者 3)注明转载自华恩传媒网站并注明华恩传媒网址 4)注明华恩传媒版权所有。

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ABC’S of Church Membership – C https://gdsmedia.org/articles/articles-practical/abcs-church-membership-c/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=abcs-church-membership-c Fri, 28 Feb 2014 14:10:13 +0000 http://gdsmedia.org/?p=1911 Christ. Joining a church is not about joining a pastor. It is about joining a body of believers to grow together and serve together as part of the body of Christ. It is to be […]

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教会会员须知 – A & B https://gdsmedia.org/articles/articles-practical/abcs-church-membership-b2/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=abcs-church-membership-b2 Fri, 31 Jan 2014 04:05:05 +0000 http://gdsmedia.org/?p=1900 全部:每一个真正的基督徒,都有责任加入一个忠于基督及其圣言的地方教会或宗派,成为其中的一个会员(徒2:47;9:26)。   圣经:要决定加入哪一个教会,首要的考量当是这个教会在何等程度上密切地遵从圣经,或是在何等程度上忠于合乎圣经的改革宗信仰告白。友谊、热情,传道人的技能等等,不当成为加入一个教会的主要理由。   ———————- Copyright © 2013 Gratia Dei Sola Media (华恩传媒) 版权所有 未经华恩传媒书面允许,不可印制出版。若要转载至其他网站,务必遵循以下条例: 1)不得擅自修改任何内容 2)注明原作者 3)注明转载自华恩传媒网站并注明华恩传媒网址 4)注明华恩传媒版权所有。

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ABC’S of Church Membership – A & B https://gdsmedia.org/articles/articles-practical/abcs-church-membership-b/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=abcs-church-membership-b Fri, 31 Jan 2014 03:55:09 +0000 http://gdsmedia.org/?p=1897 All. Every true Christian is duty-bound to join as a member a local congregation or denomination that is faithful to Christ and His Word. (Acts 2:47; 9:26; see PCC Bulletin, vol. 1, no. 11; dated […]

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教会会员须知 – 简介 https://gdsmedia.org/articles/articles-practical/abcs-church-membership-introduction2/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=abcs-church-membership-introduction2 Fri, 31 Jan 2014 03:53:48 +0000 http://gdsmedia.org/?p=1894 《教会会员须知》是朝圣者圣约教会的林集章牧师撰写的一篇文章,原本是一篇文章,由于偏长,因此在此以微型文章的方式,定期挂上,希望能造就主内肢体。 中文版由王朱素云翻译。 “于是领受祂话的人,就受了洗。那一天,门徒约添了三千,都恒心遵守使徒的教训,彼此交接、掰饼、祈祷”(徒2:41-42)。

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ABC’S of Church Membership – Introduction https://gdsmedia.org/articles/articles-practical/abcs-church-membership-introduction/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=abcs-church-membership-introduction Fri, 31 Jan 2014 03:51:12 +0000 http://gdsmedia.org/?p=1891 ABC’s of Church Membership is an article by Pastor JJ Lim of Pilgrim Covenant Church (PCC). It was published in PCC’s bulletin as one single article, however, due to the length, we have decided to […]

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圣经中所启示的圣约父母的义务 – Z https://gdsmedia.org/articles/articles-practical/biblical-duties-of-covenant-parents-z2/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=biblical-duties-of-covenant-parents-z2 Tue, 31 Dec 2013 01:34:04 +0000 http://gdsmedia.org/?p=1862 热情: 在训练孩子方面,你要心里火热。因为这是你的天父对你的委托。在很多方面,孩子的得救和在基督国度里的用处,都是与你对上帝所委派这一伟大且具有挑战性的托付是否忠心连在一起的。因此,唯愿当别人谈及你的时候,就像上帝对亚伯拉罕所说的话那样:“我眷顾他,为要叫他吩咐他的众子和他的眷属遵守我的道,秉公行义,使我应许亚伯拉罕的话都成就了”(创18:19)。   ———————- Copyright © 2011 Gratia Dei Sola Media (华恩传媒) 版权所有 未经华恩传媒书面允许,不可印制出版。若要转载至其他网站,务必遵循以下条例: 1)不得擅自修改任何内容 2)注明原作者 3)注明转载自华恩传媒网站并注明华恩传媒网址 4)注明华恩传媒版权所有。

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圣经中所启示的圣约父母的义务 – Y https://gdsmedia.org/articles/articles-practical/biblical-duties-covenant-parents-y2/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=biblical-duties-covenant-parents-y2 Sat, 30 Nov 2013 07:52:14 +0000 http://gdsmedia.org/?p=1848 喊叫:在基督徒教养方面,喊叫是没有一席之地的。因为罪的缘故,对自己的孩子大喊大叫必是一个极大的试探。但是,你必须天天寻求主的恩典来抵制这样的试探。基督徒家庭必须是和平的。倘若你必须对你的孩子喊叫,那就意味着他需要打屁股了。当你经过祷告使自己安静下来,然后就去打他的屁股,但是不要大喊大叫。如果你发现你的孩子们互相大喊大叫,那可能是因为你曾经对他们大喊大叫(最为糟糕的是,你还对你的配偶大喊大叫过)!   ———————- Copyright © 2011 Gratia Dei Sola Media (华恩传媒) 版权所有 未经华恩传媒书面允许,不可印制出版。若要转载至其他网站,务必遵循以下条例: 1)不得擅自修改任何内容 2)注明原作者 3)注明转载自华恩传媒网站并注明华恩传媒网址 4)注明华恩传媒版权所有。

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圣经中所启示的圣约父母的义务 – X https://gdsmedia.org/articles/articles-practical/biblical-duties-of-covenant-parents-x2/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=biblical-duties-of-covenant-parents-x2 Wed, 30 Oct 2013 03:23:34 +0000 http://gdsmedia.org/?p=1834 期望:所有作父母的都对自己的孩子有很高的期望。但是,你要牢记:你要以合乎圣经的、而不是属世的期望培养他们。一般来讲,属世的期望关涉的就是学业优秀和比赛名次。合乎圣经的期望所关涉的就是基督徒的品格和在主的国度里的用处。但是,你要牢记:即使合乎圣经的期望也当以祷告和谦卑之心调和,深信最终而言,主是爱你的,也爱你的孩子,一切都在祂的主权的掌管之下。你要抵制每一个把自己的孩子与别人的孩子进行比较的诱惑,避免因你的孩子没有达到你的期望就以强烈的不满或使之尴尬的表情来贬低他。换句话说,不要强逼你的孩子达到你的期望。如果他们没有按照你的期望发展,不要失去盼望。要在主里有盼望。他们身上有属主的标记,你要把他们作为圣约之子为他们祷告。   ———————- Copyright © 2011 Gratia Dei Sola Media (华恩传媒) 版权所有 未经华恩传媒书面允许,不可印制出版。若要转载至其他网站,务必遵循以下条例: 1)不得擅自修改任何内容 2)注明原作者 3)注明转载自华恩传媒网站并注明华恩传媒网址 4)注明华恩传媒版权所有。

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圣经中所启示的圣约父母的义务 – W https://gdsmedia.org/articles/articles-practical/biblical-duties-covenant-parents-w2/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=biblical-duties-covenant-parents-w2 Mon, 30 Sep 2013 12:35:56 +0000 http://gdsmedia.org/?p=1817 敬拜: 你能够给予孩子的最重要的东西之一就是敬拜耶和华。这在第二条诫命中有详细的说明,第二条诫命教导我们要按照上帝指定的方式敬拜祂,既不能增加,也不能删减,以至于上帝说,对那些恨恶祂的,祂必追讨他们的罪,自父及子,直到三四代;对那些爱祂的人,祂要向他们发慈爱,直到千代。因此,你要教导你的孩子,当以畏惧和爱来敬拜耶和华。要教导他们在私下里敬拜祂,在家庭中要敬拜祂,还要在教会里和弟兄姊妹共同敬拜祂。是的,无论是在你的家庭敬拜中,还是在公共敬拜中,都要让你的孩子参加。因为只有这样,你的“还未懂事的孩子,就要使他们听、使他们学习,好敬畏耶和华——你的上帝……”(申31:10-13)。你要让他们尽可能早地意识到,千万不要以轻浮的态度对待敬拜,而是以认真和敬畏耶和华之心进行敬拜,尽管我们看不见祂。因此,要把虔敬的姿势反复灌输给他们,教导他们要在敬拜过程中,安安静静地坐着(或根据情况需要安安静静地站着)。你可以从每天的家庭敬拜开始这项训练。如果你不能这样在家里训练他们,你就不能使你的孩子在公共场合安静地敬拜主,你的孩子也不会产生真正的敬畏主、爱主的心。因此,你要和约书亚一起下决心:“至于我和我全家,我们必定事奉耶和华”(约24:15)。   ———————- Copyright © 2011 Gratia Dei Sola Media (华恩传媒) 版权所有 未经华恩传媒书面允许,不可印制出版。若要转载至其他网站,务必遵循以下条例: 1)不得擅自修改任何内容 2)注明原作者 3)注明转载自华恩传媒网站并注明华恩传媒网址 4)注明华恩传媒版权所有。

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圣经中所启示的圣约父母的义务 – V https://gdsmedia.org/articles/articles-practical/biblical-duties-covenant-parents-v2/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=biblical-duties-covenant-parents-v2 Sat, 31 Aug 2013 03:13:23 +0000 http://gdsmedia.org/?p=1808 美德:你要牢记:你不仅要教导孩子言行举止,也要教导他们基督徒的美德。你必须早早地把美德教导他们。你可以通过使用和重申十条诫命、八福、圣灵的果子,并借助学习《箴言》书和诸如《罗马书》12章这样的章节,教导他们何谓真正的美德。让你的孩子记诵这些合乎圣经的教诲。你要牢记教导他们顺服、诚实、爱心、礼仪、忠诚、怜悯、专心、谦卑、温柔、无私、忍耐、知足、节俭、感恩、次序、自制和分辨力。 但是,你要牢记:美德并不只是简单地通过记诵和解释来教导的,必须是通过持续不断地提醒和敬虔的榜样来培养。   ———————- Copyright © 2011 Gratia Dei Sola Media (华恩传媒) 版权所有 未经华恩传媒书面允许,不可印制出版。若要转载至其他网站,务必遵循以下条例: 1)不得擅自修改任何内容 2)注明原作者 3)注明转载自华恩传媒网站并注明华恩传媒网址 4)注明华恩传媒版权所有。

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圣经中所启示的圣约父母的义务 – U https://gdsmedia.org/articles/articles-practical/biblical-duties-of-covenant-parents-u-2/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=biblical-duties-of-covenant-parents-u-2 Wed, 31 Jul 2013 02:32:34 +0000 http://gdsmedia.org/?p=1786 理解:你要按照孩子的年龄、性情和大脑的发育,明白每个人的独特性。比如,你必须晓得,你不能以惩罚儿童的方式处置一个青少年期的孩子。你这样做就会激发苦毒和叛逆,使局势变得更为糟糕。当你的孩子长得更为负责任一些的时候(能够采取主动性,或稍微有人看着就能做一些事情),就要寻求给与他多一些的自由。但是,你要明白,无论你的孩子处于怎样的年龄,你必须与他们有沟通。你要牢记:不要落入冒昧地向你的孩子讲话的陷阱(如简短的命令,意见或盘问)!你要与他们交谈,努力理解他们。不要因着每个孩子的性格不同,就对顺服的原则进行修改,而是要努力帮助他们每个人都胜过自身的软弱和试探。要避免对他们进行互相比较,避免任何偏心的表现。所以,你要牢记:无论一个孩子何时做的好,都要表示你的认同。并且要以不冷落其余的孩子、不会引发嫉妒或任何偏心的看法的方式去做。 除了了解你孩子的性格之外,你还要努力了解你自己与他们的关系。你要学习聆听你孩子的声音。对父母来讲,聆听自己的孩子说话是十分让人谦卑的。但是,你要牢记:抚养孩子长大的过程不仅是孩子成圣的过程,也是父母成圣的过程。作为父母,你会自然地受到试探,就是对你的孩子讲到关于你的任何事情进行拒绝。但是,你要牢记:无论你孩子对于你的看法是否正确,倘若是否定的看法,你就必须处理,就好像那是一个事实一样。不要试图告诉你的孩子应当改正他的看法,用这种来纠正他对你的看法。要寻求主的恩典,在对孩子讲话及对待孩子方面,做出必要的改变,从而使得你能继续对教养孩子活在基督里产生正面的影响。然而,这并不表示说,譬如你的孩子告诉你,他欣赏他朋友的父母那种自由放任的作法,你就让你的孩子随心所欲。但是,你要牢记:作为父母,当他们从自己孩子的言行举止上看到自己的影子,或是听到孩子对自己的评定,从而意识到自己的失败时,就要发自内心地悔改,这是必须行的。   ———————- Copyright © 2011 Gratia Dei Sola Media (华恩传媒) 版权所有 未经华恩传媒书面允许,不可印制出版。若要转载至其他网站,务必遵循以下条例: 1)不得擅自修改任何内容 2)注明原作者 3)注明转载自华恩传媒网站并注明华恩传媒网址 4)注明华恩传媒版权所有。

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圣经中所启示的圣约父母的义务 – T https://gdsmedia.org/articles/articles-practical/biblical-duties-of-covenant-parents-t2/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=biblical-duties-of-covenant-parents-t2 Sun, 30 Jun 2013 13:08:05 +0000 http://gdsmedia.org/?p=1762 时间:“时候减少了”(林前7:29)。你拥有的和孩子在一起的时间是很有限的。因此,要充分利用你和他们在一起的任何时间。同时,训练你的孩子要爱惜光阴。你必须让孩子有时间玩,但是要教导他们只有在能玩的时间玩。并且,让他们殷勤做好你指定的任何事情,不要分心。还有,当他们长大一点的时候,要教导他们有规律地使用时间,并且对时间段有认识,比如,他们不能在卫生间蹲上一个小时。   ———————- Copyright © 2011 Gratia Dei Sola Media (华恩传媒) 版权所有 未经华恩传媒书面允许,不可印制出版。若要转载至其他网站,务必遵循以下条例: 1)不得擅自修改任何内容 2)注明原作者 3)注明转载自华恩传媒网站并注明华恩传媒网址 4)注明华恩传媒版权所有。

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圣经中所启示的圣约父母的义务 – S https://gdsmedia.org/articles/articles-practical/biblical-duties-of-covenant-parents-s2/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=biblical-duties-of-covenant-parents-s2 Fri, 31 May 2013 09:46:34 +0000 http://gdsmedia.org/?p=1741 安息日:安息日是由我们的主指定,让我们用以休息和敬拜的时间。作为父母,确保你的孩子尊安息日为圣乃是你的责任(出20:10)。因此,你要保证让孩子在礼拜六早上床睡觉。然后,当安息日临近时,要提醒他们这是安息日。也要提醒他们,安息日是主的圣日,是保留出来用于敬拜上帝的,不是用于玩耍和娱乐的。还要提醒他们,他们去教会时应当如何说话做事,比如不要跑来跑去。并且,你要牢记,不要在安息日的时候,让他们自行其事。当他们在家休息的时候,尽可能多地带领他们唱颂诗篇,读圣经及一些好的基督徒书籍,或学习教理问答。帮助他们以安息日为乐,而不是恨恶。   ———————- Copyright © 2011 Gratia Dei Sola Media (华恩传媒) 版权所有 未经华恩传媒书面允许,不可印制出版。若要转载至其他网站,务必遵循以下条例: 1)不得擅自修改任何内容 2)注明原作者 3)注明转载自华恩传媒网站并注明华恩传媒网址 4)注明华恩传媒版权所有。

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Biblical Duties of Covenant Parents – S https://gdsmedia.org/articles/articles-practical/biblical-duties-of-covenant-parents-s/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=biblical-duties-of-covenant-parents-s Fri, 31 May 2013 09:45:06 +0000 http://gdsmedia.org/?p=1738 Sabbath. The Sabbath is a time appointed by our Lord for rest and spiritual worship. It is your duty as parents to ensure that your children keep the Sabbath holy (Ex 20:10). Therefore ensure that […]

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圣经中所启示的圣约父母的义务 – R https://gdsmedia.org/articles/articles-practical/biblical-duties-of-covenant-parents-r2/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=biblical-duties-of-covenant-parents-r2 Tue, 30 Apr 2013 03:44:04 +0000 http://gdsmedia.org/?p=1709 规则:为了使家庭有次序地发挥功能,除了十条诫命外,设定各种规则乃是好的。你可能设有房间管理规则,比如“不可把用不着的衣物或玩具丢在地板上”。你可能设有饭桌规则,比如“无论什么食物放在你的盘子上,都要吃干净,不许有任何抱怨”;“无论是谁预备饭菜,都要说声谢谢才能离开饭桌;无论是谁坐在餐桌主人的位置,都要得到他的准许后才能离开。”你也可以设有家庭敬拜的规则,比如,“听到铃响,就要立即聚集起来”,并且,“在整个敬拜期间,手中不能拿玩具。”你不能设立太多规则,然而,一旦规则设定,就要确保自己按照恰当的劝告和惩治程序加以施行。   ———————- Copyright © 2011 Gratia Dei Sola Media (华恩传媒) 版权所有 未经华恩传媒书面允许,不可印制出版。若要转载至其他网站,务必遵循以下条例: 1)不得擅自修改任何内容 2)注明原作者 3)注明转载自华恩传媒网站并注明华恩传媒网址 4)注明华恩传媒版权所有。

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圣经中所启示的圣约父母的义务 – Q https://gdsmedia.org/articles/articles-practical/biblical-duties-of-covenant-parents-q2/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=biblical-duties-of-covenant-parents-q2 Fri, 29 Mar 2013 01:47:38 +0000 http://gdsmedia.org/?p=1671 争吵: 即使成年人也争吵,更何况被愚蒙迷住的孩童的心呢(箴22:15)。因此,你要学习如何处理孩子的大声吵闹。第一个重要的规则就是:当孩子在教会里与其他孩子争吵时,不要介入其中。

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Biblical Duties of Covenant Parents – Q https://gdsmedia.org/articles/articles-practical/biblical-duties-of-covenant-parents-q/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=biblical-duties-of-covenant-parents-q Fri, 29 Mar 2013 01:45:38 +0000 http://gdsmedia.org/?p=1668 Quarrels. Even adults quarrel, how much more children in whose hearts foolishness is bound up (Prov 22:15). Therefore learn how to deal with childish squabbles. The first rule of thumb is: Do not intervene when your child quarrels with other children in the church.

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圣经中所启示的圣约父母的义务 – P https://gdsmedia.org/articles/articles-practical/biblical-duties-of-covenant-parents-p2/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=biblical-duties-of-covenant-parents-p2 Wed, 27 Feb 2013 02:16:11 +0000 http://gdsmedia.org/?p=1651 祷告:在你训练孩子的过程中,祷告是一个不可缺少的环节。你要牢记:要祈求上帝的恩典和帮助,按照主所吩咐的养育和警诫方式把孩子抚养长大。

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Biblical Duties of Covenant Parents – P https://gdsmedia.org/articles/articles-practical/biblical-duties-of-covenant-parents-p/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=biblical-duties-of-covenant-parents-p Wed, 27 Feb 2013 02:14:41 +0000 http://gdsmedia.org/?p=1648 Prayer. Prayer is an indispensable element in your training of your children. Remember to pray for grace and help to bring up your children in the nurture and admonition of the Lord.

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圣经中所启示的圣约父母的义务 – O https://gdsmedia.org/articles/articles-practical/biblical-duties-of-covenant-parents-o2/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=biblical-duties-of-covenant-parents-o2 Thu, 31 Jan 2013 12:22:37 +0000 http://gdsmedia.org/?p=1631 顺服:训练孩子的基本要素就是培养他们的顺服。在他们人生的前五、六年,这应当是花最多时间和精力要做的事。使徒保罗说:“你们作儿女的,要凡事听从父母,因为这是主所喜悦的”(西3:20)。

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圣经中所启示的圣约父母的义务 – N https://gdsmedia.org/articles/articles-practical/biblical-duties-of-covenant-parents-n2/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=biblical-duties-of-covenant-parents-n2 Wed, 31 Oct 2012 15:18:54 +0000 http://gdsmedia.org/?p=1595 新生:尽管孩子是你生的,但惟有上帝能够给予他们新生命。作为一个信徒,你必须视孩子为基督徒,并且你也能够特别确信:上帝必会按照祂圣约的慈爱重生他们(倘若上帝还没有这样做的话)。你只能殷勤地以敬畏耶和华之心,以耶和华吩咐的养育方式把他们抚养长大,确保他们从小就爱基督、基督教会和各样蒙恩之道。你要教导他们,虽然他们居住在这个世界上,但他们并不属于这个世界;虽然他们处在圣约中,但他们并还没有属于圣约,除非他们相信主耶稣基督,为自己的罪悔改,并行走在主的道路上。   ———————- Copyright © 2011 Gratia Dei Sola Media (华恩传媒) 版权所有 未经华恩传媒书面允许,不可印制出版。若要转载至其他网站,务必遵循以下条例: 1)不得擅自修改任何内容 2)注明原作者 3)注明转载自华恩传媒网站并注明华恩传媒网址 4)注明华恩传媒版权所有。

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圣经中所启示的圣约父母的义务 – M https://gdsmedia.org/articles/articles-practical/biblical-duties-of-covenant-parents-m-2/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=biblical-duties-of-covenant-parents-m-2 Sat, 29 Sep 2012 13:02:25 +0000 http://gdsmedia.org/?p=1578 记忆:记忆是来自上帝的礼物。但是,你要牢记:记忆也能成为悲哀的原由,特别是那些不被父母接纳或受到父母凶暴对待的痛苦难忘的童年记忆。因此,要寻求上帝的恩典,尽可能地给予你的孩子一个快乐、积极的童年。 从记忆能够带来感情伤痛的角度看,其实你也要晓得,忘记也是一种祝福,可以祈求上帝赐给。但是,你也要牢记:也有圣经视为忘记的罪(参看:箴3:1)。有时孩子没有尽职,声称自己忘记了。当你处理此类事情时,要有节制。但是,不要任凭这种选择性遗忘成为很方便的犯罪理由。 你还要牢记:当孩子小的时候,他们拥有巨大的记忆能力。因此,你要帮助孩子尽早背诵上帝的话语和教理问答,甚至在他们还不理解自己反复记诵的东西之前就当这样做。他们背诵的话可能一时只停留在他们心灵的表面,但是,因为公义的太阳能够温暖融化他们的心,他们隐藏在心里的真理必会被圣灵使用,在他们将来基督徒的生活中发挥引导作用。   ———————- Copyright © 2011 Gratia Dei Sola Media (华恩传媒) 版权所有 未经华恩传媒书面允许,不可印制出版。若要转载至其他网站,务必遵循以下条例: 1)不得擅自修改任何内容 2)注明原作者 3)注明转载自华恩传媒网站并注明华恩传媒网址 4)注明华恩传媒版权所有。

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圣经中所启示的圣约父母的义务 – L https://gdsmedia.org/articles/articles-practical/biblical-duties-of-covenant-parents-l2/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=biblical-duties-of-covenant-parents-l2 Fri, 31 Aug 2012 11:23:54 +0000 http://gdsmedia.org/?p=1565 爱:你为孩子所作的一切,都要由爱心来遮盖。你对孩子的爱应当是无条件的,就像天父对你的爱是无条件的一样。

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圣经中所启示的圣约父母的义务 – K https://gdsmedia.org/articles/articles-practical/biblical-duties-of-covenant-parents-k2/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=biblical-duties-of-covenant-parents-k2 Tue, 31 Jul 2012 16:29:45 +0000 http://gdsmedia.org/?p=1546 知识:传授知识是你牧养你的小羊的一个重要环节。但是,你要牢记:敬畏耶和华是智慧的开端(箴1:7;9:10)。所以,千万不要把训练他们的大脑和训练他们的心灵分割开来。因此,

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圣经中所启示的圣约父母的义务 – J https://gdsmedia.org/articles/articles-practical/biblical-duties-of-covenant-parents-j-2/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=biblical-duties-of-covenant-parents-j-2 Sat, 30 Jun 2012 13:36:24 +0000 http://gdsmedia.org/?p=1526 耶稣基督: 你要早早地让你的孩子熟悉主耶稣基督的名字和位格,并教导他们祂乃是教会和你家里的头。千万不要让他们只是称祂为“耶稣”,要称“主耶稣”。你要确保他们晓得,祂既是上帝,也是人,并且在一个位格之内。

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圣经中所启示的圣约父母的义务 – I https://gdsmedia.org/articles/articles-practical/biblical-duties-of-covenant-parents-i2/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=biblical-duties-of-covenant-parents-i2 Wed, 30 May 2012 03:32:06 +0000 http://gdsmedia.org/?p=1473 恼怒: 因为你和你的孩子都是由耶和华所独特地创造的,并且因为你比你的孩子成熟得多,所以很多时候,你会被他们的行为所激怒。然而,你要抵制诱惑,不能动不动就责备他们,更不要为着他们所犯的每一个小小的过错或令你恼怒的事情就责罚他们。你一定要牢记:你必须尽你所能地寻求把他们塑造成主的样式,而不是尽你所能地塑造成你的模样。因此,你只能为他们道德上的过犯责备并责罚他们。并且,你也要牢记:倘若你对你的孩子有苦毒之情,容易发怒,并且毫无必要地对孩子说些刻薄的话,你就会激怒他们的心,使他们远离你(西3:21)。结果,你会发现他们没有任何好好地做事的内在动力——因为不管他们做什么,你都不会感到高兴!   ———————- Copyright © 2011 Gratia Dei Sola Media (华恩传媒) 版权所有 未经华恩传媒书面允许,不可印制出版。若要转载至其他网站,务必遵循以下条例: 1)不得擅自修改任何内容 2)注明原作者 3)注明转载自华恩传媒网站并注明华恩传媒网址 4)注明华恩传媒版权所有。

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圣经中所启示的圣约父母的义务 – H https://gdsmedia.org/articles/articles-practical/biblical-duties-of-covenant-parents-h2/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=biblical-duties-of-covenant-parents-h2 Mon, 30 Apr 2012 15:13:35 +0000 http://gdsmedia.org/?p=1463 诚实:你要训练你的孩子总是说诚实话,记得魔鬼乃是谎言之父。因着他们堕落的本性,你的孩子不需要教导就会撒谎。但是,你要早早地向他们灌输总是讲说全部真相的重要性,既要给予正面的腔调,也要当你肯定无疑地知道他们撒了谎时,进行管教。千万不要在你不确定他是否撒谎或稍微有些混乱时惩罚孩子。一旦有疑问,就让事情过去好了。有时候,作傻瓜倒比使你的孩子觉得你不信任他更好些。你要牢记,你的孩子对你错误地指责他撒谎的时刻记得比你正确地搜出一个谎言,并为此惩罚他的时刻还要清楚。   ———————- Copyright © 2011 Gratia Dei Sola Media (华恩传媒) 版权所有 未经华恩传媒书面允许,不可印制出版。若要转载至其他网站,务必遵循以下条例: 1)不得擅自修改任何内容 2)注明原作者 3)注明转载自华恩传媒网站并注明华恩传媒网址 4)注明华恩传媒版权所有。

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圣经中所启示的圣约父母的义务 – G https://gdsmedia.org/articles/articles-practical/biblical-duties-of-covenant-parents-g2/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=biblical-duties-of-covenant-parents-g2 Sat, 31 Mar 2012 04:22:26 +0000 http://gdsmedia.org/?p=1421 上帝:你要牢记:你的孩子是按照上帝的形象被造的,因此不要容许自己受到试探而认为:只有他们长大以后才会认识上帝。你要早早地教导他们敬畏上帝、热爱上帝,帮助他们明白,基督乃是家里的头,要训练他们成为顺服的基督的羔羊,而不仅仅是爸爸和妈妈的好孩子。所以,你要经常地提醒他们,主在他们所做的一切事情上都在观看他们。所以,无论你在观看他们与否,他们都必须作顺服的孩子。   ———————- Copyright © 2011 Gratia Dei Sola Media (华恩传媒) 版权所有 未经华恩传媒书面允许,不可印制出版。若要转载至其他网站,务必遵循以下条例: 1)不得擅自修改任何内容 2)注明原作者 3)注明转载自华恩传媒网站并注明华恩传媒网址 4)注明华恩传媒版权所有。

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圣经中所启示的圣约父母的义务 – F https://gdsmedia.org/articles/articles-practical/biblical-duties-of-covenant-parents-f2/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=biblical-duties-of-covenant-parents-f2 Wed, 29 Feb 2012 13:16:50 +0000 http://gdsmedia.org/?p=1278 朋友: 你一定不要轻易地认为你的孩子知道他们应该交什么样的朋友。虽然圣约群体内的人相对安全,但是你也必须保护你的孩子不要进入坏人团伙,特别是学校或邻居中的。你必须教导他们什么是真正的友谊!倘若你发现同龄人或年龄大一些的孩子给自己的孩子带来消极的影响,不要惧怕辅导他们。你的孩子就是你的责任!但是,你一定要牢记向他们反复灌输爱心和礼貌,甚至面对你不希望他们多交往的人也当有爱心和礼貌。不要忘记提醒他们,朋友会来也会去,“滥交朋友的,自取败坏;但有一朋友比弟兄更亲密”(箴18:24),祂就是主耶稣基督!   ———————- Copyright © 2011 Gratia Dei Sola Media (华恩传媒) 版权所有 未经华恩传媒书面允许,不可印制出版。若要转载至其他网站,务必遵循以下条例: 1)不得擅自修改任何内容 2)注明原作者 3)注明转载自华恩传媒网站并注明华恩传媒网址 4)注明华恩传媒版权所有。

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圣经中所启示的圣约父母的义务 – E https://gdsmedia.org/articles/articles-practical/biblical-duties-of-covenant-parents-e2/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=biblical-duties-of-covenant-parents-e2 Tue, 31 Jan 2012 05:58:39 +0000 http://gdsmedia.org/?p=1239 榜样: 以自己为敬虔的榜样训练你的孩子。你要牢记:倘若你对孩子的一切教导、建议或命令没有在自己的生命中体现出来,你说的一切对他就无济于事。因此,当你在安息日从事属世的事物时,教导你的孩子要守安息日为圣就没有任何用处。有个人说得好:“给予孩子好的教导、坏的榜样,不过就是用头示意他们要走天国道路,同时却拉着他们的手走向地狱”。   ———————- Copyright © 2011 Gratia Dei Sola Media (华恩传媒) 版权所有 未经华恩传媒书面允许,不可印制出版。若要转载至其他网站,务必遵循以下条例: 1)不得擅自修改任何内容 2)注明原作者 3)注明转载自华恩传媒网站并注明华恩传媒网址 4)注明华恩传媒版权所有。

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Biblical Duties of Covenant Parents – E https://gdsmedia.org/articles/articles-practical/biblical-duties-of-covenant-parents-e/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=biblical-duties-of-covenant-parents-e Tue, 31 Jan 2012 05:50:12 +0000 http://gdsmedia.org/?p=1235 Example. Train your children by your godly example. Remember that all your instructions, advice and commands will mean very little to your children if they are not backed up by your own life. Thus it […]

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圣经中所启示的圣约父母的义务 – D https://gdsmedia.org/articles/articles-practical/biblical-duties-of-covenant-parents-d2/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=biblical-duties-of-covenant-parents-d2 Thu, 29 Dec 2011 04:14:49 +0000 http://gdsmedia.org/?p=1198 纪律:纪律包括责备和责罚。当你孩子的言行违背上帝的话语或违反你的教诲时,你必须责备他。“因为耶和华所爱的,祂必责备,正如父亲责备所喜爱的儿子”(箴3:12)。但是,你要记得区分责备的需要和教导的需要。责备可以包括斥责和责罚,是在让孩子知道他做错了的时候使用,而孩子在接受教导时,是让他明白更好的方式。一个孩子在主日穿着不当或不整齐,他更需要的是教导,而不是责备,因为他那样穿戴并不是出于背逆或不顺服。一个孩子从同龄人那里学说不中听的话,他真正需要的也应该是教导,而不是责备,因为他无从知道那样说话是不对的。 当责罚成为必须时,你要牢记:审慎地用杖管教并非不合乎基督徒的样式。对于孩子的悖逆或屡教不改,只是予以斥责是不明智的。“愚蒙迷住孩童的心,用管教的杖可以远远赶除”(箴22:15)。“不可不管教孩童;你用杖打他,他必不至于死。你要用杖打他,就可以救他的灵魂免下阴间”(箴23:13-14)。但是,你要牢记:不要对他们的每一个过错都过分挑剔,总是要追求前后一致。吹毛求疵和言行不一(譬如今天要求他们这样做,明天却要求他们做相反的事)必会激怒你的孩子,甚至会制造出更多的需要管教的问题。你也要牢记:一定不要在烦躁或生气的时候用杖管教。总是在纠正他们时才使用杖,不要因为沮丧而冲孩子泄怒,即使为了教导的缘故也不可杖打!千万不要因孩子吃饭慢,往外吐食物或没有正确地背诵教理问答而打他们的屁股。打屁股只在为了纠正他们的不顺服或悖逆的态度,并且只有在你心平气和后才可使用。而且,你还要牢记,总是要向孩子解释,你是出于爱他的缘故才惩戒他。你要向孩子清楚地解释,你为什么必须对他进行惩戒,然后要确保孩子晓得他需要为所犯的罪悔改,并且要得到你的饶恕(不仅仅是说对不起就行了)。在对孩子施行管教之后,你还要总是给他一个拥抱,以寻求恢复你们的关系,还要尽可能地一起祷告。 你也要牢记:警告和恐吓也是可以使用的,因为耶和华也警告并恐吓祂的百姓,使他们转离他们的罪,免得祂带着责罚向他们显现(启2:5,16;3:3)。然而,一定不要“光打雷,不下雨”。从乐观的角度讲,那样做就是在撒谎。从悲观的角度讲,那就是教导你的孩子在你酝酿挫败感的时候,不理睬你。你还要牢记:你要在自己做的每件事情上训练你的孩子。如果你对他的不顺服,养成了只恐吓不惩罚的习惯,你就是在训练你的孩子在顺服之先等待的是你的恐吓。所以,千万不要这样发出指示,如果孩子不顺服,就问他:“你想让我打你的屁股吗?”你给他的指示要清清楚楚,并且确保培养你的孩子知道,你第一次对他说话,也是最后一次说话,不顺服的后果就是责罚! 你还要牢记:使用恐吓也要十分谨慎。倘若你发现你的孩子互相恐吓:“你如果不给我做这事儿,我就再也不和你一起玩了”,你就应当视此作为一个迹象:你可能过分使用恐吓这一方法了。并且,千万不允许你的孩子以任何方式恐吓他的兄弟姐妹或其他人。   ———————- Copyright © 2011 Gratia Dei Sola Media (华恩传媒) 版权所有 未经华恩传媒书面允许,不可印制出版。若要转载至其他网站,务必遵循以下条例: 1)不得擅自修改任何内容 2)注明原作者 3)注明转载自华恩传媒网站并注明华恩传媒网址 4)注明华恩传媒版权所有。

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圣经中所启示的圣约父母的义务 – C https://gdsmedia.org/articles/articles-practical/biblical-duties-of-covenant-parents-c2/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=biblical-duties-of-covenant-parents-c2 Tue, 29 Nov 2011 14:07:35 +0000 http://gdsmedia.org/?p=1167 圣约:使徒彼得说:“因为这应许是给你们和你们的儿女”(徒2:39)。信徒的孩子因着出生而处于上帝的圣约中。就如生长在橄榄树上的嫩枝,他们作为圣约的成员,就像嫁接在树上的枝子一样。因此,他们必须接受洗礼,并且以基督徒的样式,而不是外邦人子女的样式被抚养长大。他们应该被视作羔羊(小绵羊),而不是小山羊。所以,在和孩子讲话及对待他们方面,不要让孩子认为他们是属于魔鬼的想法。反之,要提醒他们,他们身上披戴着基督的标志和印记,劝告他们要悔改,要有信心。也要把他们应尽的圣约义务告诉他们;而且要教导他们,他们必须寻求不只是处于圣约中,也要确确实实地属于圣约。那些属于圣约的人,就会以喜乐和感恩之心行走在基督的道路上。有了这种概念之后,还要记得为他们祷告,祈求耶和华的圣约的怜悯临到他们身上。   ———————- Copyright © 2011 Gratia Dei Sola Media (华恩传媒) 版权所有 未经华恩传媒书面允许,不可印制出版。若要转载至其他网站,务必遵循以下条例: 1)不得擅自修改任何内容 2)注明原作者 3)注明转载自华恩传媒网站并注明华恩传媒网址 4)注明华恩传媒版权所有。

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圣经中所启示的圣约父母的义务 – B https://gdsmedia.org/articles/articles-practical/biblical-duties-of-covenant-parents-b2/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=biblical-duties-of-covenant-parents-b2 Thu, 27 Oct 2011 12:29:04 +0000 http://gdsmedia.org/?p=1132   行为:一定不要轻易地认为你的孩子会自动地知道如何行事为人。倘若你的孩子在公众场合因其言行使你尴尬,比如:对你的朋友或长辈说话粗鲁(譬如:拒绝向他们打招呼),在教会里喧嚷吵闹,在饭桌前没有礼节(譬如:嚼东西太大声,或抱怨饭食不好吃),不把自己的玩具分享给其他孩子玩,等等,这些都是因为你没有训练他们如何做。要牢记,你必须训练他们的心灵;同时,也必须训练他们的言行举止。   ———————- Copyright © 2011 Gratia Dei Sola Media (华恩传媒) 版权所有 未经华恩传媒书面允许,不可印制出版。若要转载至其他网站,务必遵循以下条例: 1)不得擅自修改任何内容 2)注明原作者 3)注明转载自华恩传媒网站并注明华恩传媒网址 4)注明华恩传媒版权所有。

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圣经中所启示的圣约父母的义务 – A https://gdsmedia.org/articles/articles-practical/biblical-duties-of-covenant-parents-a2/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=biblical-duties-of-covenant-parents-a2 Tue, 27 Sep 2011 01:50:51 +0000 http://gdsmedia.org/?p=982 权威:你是上帝的代表,在祂所赐给的权柄之下教养你的孩子。照此说来,你有来自上帝的托付,确保你的孩子尊重你,顺服你。因此,为着主的缘故,千万不要让你的孩子对你讲话时粗鲁无礼,也不要任凭他们自己来选择顺服或不顺服你。既然知道他们乃是主暂时借给你管理的产业,就当努力鼓励你的孩子遵守第五条诫命,以慈爱和恩典之心殷切祷告,训练他们,由此赢得他们的尊重。   ———————- Copyright © 2011 Gratia Dei Sola Media (华恩传媒) 版权所有 未经华恩传媒书面允许,不可印制出版。若要转载至其他网站,务必遵循以下条例: 1)不得擅自修改任何内容 2)注明原作者 3)注明转载自华恩传媒网站并注明华恩传媒网址 4)注明华恩传媒版权所有。

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